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When you think of autumn, you may think of falling leaves, hearty food and cosying up indoors. However, this time of year can pose some challenges for older people.

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Central heating

While the start of autumn can be fairly mild, now is a good time to think ahead and ensure the home is ready for when the temperature drops. Older people are more vulnerable to the effects of cold weather, and those living with a pre-existing health condition can be even more vulnerable. NHS guidance states that rooms that are in regular use, for example bedrooms and living rooms, should be heated to at least 18°C  in colder months.

Why do older adults feel the cold more?

As we age our skin becomes thinner, and we lose some of the fat beneath the skin. This makes it harder to retain heat in the body. Our metabolic rate – the number of calories we need to function, decreases too. This can mean that some older people aren’t able to create enough body heat to stay at a healthy temperature.

After months of not being used, it’s important to check the home’s central heating system is working before your loved one really needs it. You can do this by – 

  • Turning the thermostat to 30° Centigrade
  • Turning up the radiators up to 4 or 5 and leave on for 30 mins
  • Checking that your boiler has come on and your radiators are warming up

If there’s an issue, it’s best to seek out the support of a certified gas engineer. Never attempt to fix a faulty boiler yourself.

Electric heaters

There are four main types of electric heater – fan heaters, oil heaters, halogen heaters and convector heaters. They’re usually used to heat up small areas i.e single rooms, very quickly. All electric heaters should be used with care, and never be left unattended or running overnight while you or your loved one’s asleep. If there’s an electric heater in the home, electricians recommend making everyone aware of the following – 

  • Always place them on a flat surface, away from furniture or combustible materials 
  • Never dry clothes on or near an electric heater
  • Never leave them on overnight 
  • Never buy a second hand heater as it may be faulty
  • Regularly check the heater for scorch marks or melted areas. Discontinue using it as the first sign of damage
  • Sit at least 1 metre away from a heater
  • Never attempt to repair a heater

Electric blankets

Old and faulty electric blankets alone account for over 5000 fires a year. People over 65 are more likely to have an electric blanket over 10 years old – electricians recommend replacing an electric blanket at least every 10 years. 

If you or your loved one owns an electric blanket, the UK Fire Service has the following advice – 

  • Store the blanket correctly – avoid folding it as this can damage the wiring 
  • Don’t get it wet. If it does get wet don’t use it
  • Disconnect the blanket from power before going to bed
  • Regularly check for damage and discontinuing using it if you see any of the following –
  • Fraying fabric
  • Scorch marks
  • Exposed elements
  • Creasing or folding
  • Damp patches
  • Tie tapes damaged or missing
  • Worn flex
  • Loose connections.

You should arrange for a qualified electrician to safety test an electric blanket for you at least every three years.

If heaters or electric blankets have an old BEAB safety mark this means they are over 10 years old and will need replacing.

See if you're eligible for help with heating costs

Some older people worry about the cost of heating their home, and will avoid using central heating even in extremely cold weather to save money.

The UK government has a couple of heating schemes for the elderly to help with energy bills during colder months. However this year there has been major changes to the Winter Fuel Payments – a tax-free payment of up to £300 made to all pensioners to help with winter energy bills. The Government is now restricting this payment so that it’s only available to people on benefits and Pension Credit. 

Scotland’s plan for their ‘Pension Age Winter Heating Payment’ which would replace the Winter Fuel Payment has been delayed until 2025, but will now also be means tested. 

These changes mean it’s now more important than ever to check if you’re eligible for Pension Credit here.

What financial support is available?

If you’re worried about heating bills this winter, especially with the energy price cap likely to rise to 10%, there are some places to turn to for help –
 

Choose the right clothing

The NHS suggests wearing lots of thin layers, and choosing clothes made from cotton, wool or fleece material. This can help ‘trap in’ warmth, while making it easier to regulate temperature than just one bulky layer. If you’re going outside, a lot of heat is lost through the head and neck, so a hat and scarf is recommended. 

Some clothes fastenings can be difficult for people with joint pain or restricted mobility. Choosing clothes with larger zip pulls or poppers may help, and some brands such as The Able Label specialises in accessible and adaptive clothing.  

People with dementia can forget to dress appropriately when the temperature drops. Helping them may mean supporting them to make their own choices of warm clothing, and allowing them the time and space to dress themselves. 

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Look out for fall risks

Fallen leaves and wet or icy pavements and paths are dangerous for everyone. However for older people who may be unsteady on their feet, and more prone to bone fractures they pose a serious risk. Older bones can also take longer to heal, and this recovery process can take its toll on both physical and mental wellbeing.

Take time to check handrails and ramps around the home are secure and haven’t become brittle or rusted. If you’re unable to clear leaves or grit paths outside the home yourself, a neighbour may be able to help. Alternatively sites like Trust a Trader or Taskrabbit can connect you to local handyman services or gardeners to suit all kinds of budgets.

Did you know we have many self-employed carers on our platform who enjoy gardening and can lend a hand keeping paths clear? Find carers in your local area today. 

Get protected ahead of flu season

Contagious illnesses such as colds and flu are more common during colder times of the year, and are often more debilitating for older adults. Our immune systems become a little less effective as we age, so it can take longer to recover, and could develop into chest or sinus infections.

The best way to stay healthy is prevention. Everyone aged 65 and over can get a free flu vaccine from a GP or local pharmacy. Flu can be really unpleasant, so it’s a good idea to get the jab even if you or your loved one are generally fit and healthy. You can even get your seasonal flu jab while doing the weekly food shop, with Tesco and Asda now offering them at their larger stores.

Boost your immunity with the right foods

Good nutrition is important in winter. It can help the immune system, give us the energy we need, and keep us warm. Older people should aim to eat at least one hot meal a day, have regular hot drinks (ideally decaffeinated where possible). Including a good variety of foods can boost the amount of types of nutrients the body is getting. 

You may find it helpful to stock your loved one’s cupboard or freezer with basic items or pre prepared meals in case it’s too cold to go shopping. Alternatively, a service like meals on wheels can ensure they’re regularly provided with a nutritious hot meal. 

What foods are recommended in colder months?

We spoke to a Nutritionist from MyFood 24, who had the following advice for eating well in colder months  – 

  • While we may be drawn to warming and comforting foods like casseroles and pies, these often include red and processed meats which should be eaten in moderation. Try switching to leaner cuts or white meat like turkey. 
  • During the colder and darker months we’re unable to get enough vitamin D from sunlight, which is integral to healthy skin and bones. Eating more oily fish, liver and fortified foods, or asking a GP about supplements can help boost vitamin D. 
  • Vitamin C can help with maintaining a healthy immune system. Foods like oranges, kale, spinach, broccoli and brussels sprouts are rich in vitamin C.

Keep track of medications

It’s also important to keep your and your loved ones home well stocked with everything they need to stay well and prevent infection. Ensuring prescriptions aren’t running low, and keeping plenty of tissues, hand sanitizers and antibacterial sprays around the home can bring peace of mind, especially if the weather turns and it’s not as easy to get out and about.

If you take regular medication, you may want to ask your GP about setting up repeat dispensing. This means you can pick up your medication directly from the pharmacy each time you need it, rather than ordering a repeat prescription from your GP first. Some pharmacies also offer a home delivery service to people who find it tricky to get out and about.

older man taking medication at home to stay well in winter

Be mindful of how you store your medicines

Cold weather can physically change your medication and affect how well it works.

Some medications are classed as ‘Ambient medication’ and need to be stored at room temperature (15°C to 25°C). Check the instructions on the label or packaging to understand how to properly store your medications. If you're worried your medication has been exposed to cold temperatures, or if it's looks different than usual, contact your local pharmacy for advice.

Don't skip health check-ups

Colder weather can also cause arthritis flare ups and make joint pain worse. Experts aren’t 100 percent sure why this happens, but it’s thought a drop in air pressure can cause joints to expand – leading to pain. Low temperatures can also thicken the natural shock-absorbing layer in the joints, which can make them stiff.

Making an effort to stay active can help keep joints comfortable and reduce the risk of accidents. Even gentle chair based exercises can support mobility and balance. Age UK has a wide range of exercises on their website, remember, it’s best to consult a doctor before trying a new exercise.

It’s also a good idea to organise an eye test at this time of year too, as with shorter days comes lower visibility. If you or your loved one drives, they may want to consider using public transport or taxis when travelling in dark or rainy conditions.

Watch out for signs of loneliness

3.6 million people over the age of 75 live alone, and when the weather gets colder, wetter and generally a bit more miserable, leaving the house can become more difficult. This increases their risk of feeling isolated from friends and loved ones.

Signs a loved one may be feeling lonely include spending more time in bed, changes in mood – such as being despondent or snappy, or changes in their daily behaviour, such as spending more money on things they don’t need. You can find out more about loneliness here.

Small acts of companionship make a big difference – from a cup or tea and a chat or a weekly phone call, to dropping off some shopping or sharing a meal. 

Befriending services can help too – connecting older people to volunteer companions either over the phone, or in person. You can find out more in our guide here.

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Mr Beard's story: A tribute to his late wife Jean and carer Yemi

Not too many in-home care placements span as long as eight years. For Mr John Beard and his late wife Jean, who lived with dementia, the couple formed a special bond with their carer, Yemi. Watch the full video below.

WHILE live-in care promotes longevity and continuity, there are very few instances where a carer resides in the home for a remarkable eight years.

​For Mr John Beard and his late wife Jean, this was precisely the case. The bond they formed with their carer, Oyeyemi ‘Yemi’ Olaseinde, was undeniable.

​“She used to call me dad,” said a smiling Mr Beard.

​Yemi’s eight years of continuous care meant putting her life in London on hold, spending months at a time away from her two daughters. During the pandemic, and as Jean’s dementia worsened, Yemi stayed with the couple for six straight months.

​This is the longest care placement Elder has facilitated, and perhaps one of the longest examples of “loving care” as Mr Beard describes it, in the country. 

Mr and Mrs Beard

We travel to the sleepy but strikingly beautiful part of the UK, Great Longstone in the Peak District, where Mr Beard resides in the Bungalow built for Jean. It’s a home brimming with character and rich in memories.

Greeted at the door by the 90-something-year-old, Mr Beard ushers us over to a framed photo of the couple from their 1954 wedding, and a certificate from the Queen of England acknowledging their diamond anniversary.

Dorothy ‘Jean’ Beard, Mr Beard’s late wife

 

​As we’re seated in the living room, Mr Beard hands over his wife’s funeral program and remarks on her picture.

​“That was taken when I went into the RAF,” he said.

​“We got married on July 10, 1954, and I was called up in October.

​“I had it by my locker.”

​Mr and Mrs Beard dated from the ages of 16 to 22; their bond solidified at a local church youth club. The couple’s first encounter, or rather Jean first laying eyes on John, was rather comical.

​“She once saw me riding to school and thought my cycling was somewhat ungainly,” he said, chuckling.

“​She said to a friend ‘Who’s that drip?’, and she put up with that drip for 71 years”.

​“She was a bit shy, she was interested in everything, she was straightforward”.

“She was my all.”

After Mr Beard left the RAF in 1956, as part of his national service, the couple moved to Sheffield to raise a family. With the welcomed addition of their two children, Alastair and Fiona, the family moved several times before residing in Ashford In The Water, not five kilometres from their Dagenham bungalow.

Jean ran the home whilst devoting her time to her local community. She served as treasurer and a committee member for The Ashford Institute and The Women’s Institute, an organisation that provides a space for women to connect, learn new skills, and campaign on issues. She also volunteered for numerous years at the Bakewell Red Cross Store.

​Mr Beard built himself a successful career as an accountant, joining what had been his grandfather’s firm in Sheffield. In retirement, he became heavily involved with the Freemasons. As a member of the charitable committee, he ultimately earned himself the title of Deputy Grand Master for Derbyshire.

Mr Beard looking at his wedding photo

Mr Beard showing his wedding photo of himself and his wife

Noticing the signs of dementia

​Upon Jean’s dementia diagnosis in 2009, it became apparent to Mr Beard that their home of 32 years, a converted 200-year-old barn in Foolow, wasn’t adequate for his wife’s needs.

​Relocating to their bungalow a year later, Mr Beard recalled the time both he and Jean realised her condition was worsening.

​“She’d taken our grandson to swimming. She had come out (in her vehicle) and didn’t know which way to turn. She turned left instead of right. It was then that I realised that something was wrong.”

​“Then we went through all the different stages they go through. They worry about curtains getting pulled, doors being locked”.

​“Then it gets to the stage where they don’t worry. So in a way it’s good, but it also means they’re at a lower stage.”

​It wasn’t until a fall, in which Mrs Beard fractured her pelvis, that Mr Beard realised he needed help.

​“At that stage I had to do something,” he said.

​“Whilst I could help her during the day, I couldn’t do the night bit as well.”

More than just a carer

At first, the idea of having a carer in the home can be daunting for most, but the help from carer Yemi proved invaluable in so many ways.

​Within a few weeks, Yemi and Mrs Beard bonded. Between the care duties, they watched television, shopped, and completed puzzles, a favourite hobby of Mrs Beard’s before her diagnosis.

​Mr Beard recalls the smells of Nigerian cooking and how Yemi referred to him as “dad”.

​“She was very capable at caring, and she looked after Jean very well,” he said.

For eight years, the Beards, John, Fiona and Alastair, entrusted Yemi to their loved one’s care. Yemi became the foundation of Jean’s world, and in turn, the family rallied to see Yemi return home to London for breaks when she could.

​Mr Beard would pay for Yemi’s train tickets where he could, and Alastair would drive her back to London.

​Before going on break, Yemi made sure that John and Jean found the best respite carer.

​“We always tried to get the same carers, and Yemi was insistent she got the right person,” Mr Beard said.

Carer Yemi sitting on the sofa

Oyeyemi ‘Yemi’ Olaseinde, Mrs Beard’s carer

“Yemi and I used to look at carers and make our decisions together”.

​“She (Jean) would settle when Yemi was away, but she always knew her when she came back.”

​Away from her two daughters, Yemi was embraced as a member of the family and cared for Mrs Beard until her peaceful passing in March this year.

The benefits of live-in care

​There was no doubt in Mr Beard’s mind that home, as opposed to a care home, was where his wife needed to be. Continuity of care and a familiar environment were paramount to Jean’s health, safety, and peace of mind.

​“The fact that she was here (home) and I was here, it made life much better for her, and much better for us,” he said.

​“Home every time.”

​With the bungalow just around the corner from their daughter’s home, the couple could expect regular visits from their grandchildren. This, Mr Beard said, used to “pluck up” his wife, especially as her dementia worsened.

​“You tried telling her that you loved her very much, but you weren’t sure she was getting it,” he said.

​“Towards the end, there wasn’t much reaction, but one breakfast time, I went in and got the most dazzling smile. It was like a ray of sunshine.”

Carer becomes family member

​Yemi knows all too well the hardships faced regarding a dementia diagnosis.

​Looking after her grandmother, who lived with dementia, inspired her to become a carer.

​“I like being a companion,” she said.

​“That’s what a lot of the elderly want. A companion, a friend.”

​Yemi’s longest placement with John and Jean Beard was for six months during the pandemic. While it was difficult being away from her two daughters for such a lengthy period, she described the Beard family as “marvelous”.

​“Mrs Beard was used to me,” she said.

“I knew all of the family, the grandchildren, everyone”.

“When it came time for the placement to end, Mr Beard didn’t want me to go.”

Mr Beard and Yemi still stay connected via regular phone calls.

The importance of an early dementia diagnosis

​Mr Beard stressed the importance of looking out for signs of dementia and seeking help and a diagnosis immediately.

​“First of all, you’ve got to realise the symptoms and you’ve got to make sure you get them looked at by a psychiatrist, via a doctor, because the signs are always there,” he said.

“It needs to be diagnosed at an early stage, and I’m all for that.”

​Elder’s Head of Clinical, Bianca Wardle, concurs.

​“From a clinical standpoint, an early dementia diagnosis is fundamentally the most important step a family can take, as it reduces uncertainty and gives the person and their families a greater sense of control,” she said.

​“An early diagnosis allows families to develop a personalised care plan, involve relevant professionals, and introduce supportive therapies while the person can fully participate”.

​“Most importantly, it gives families the time to make informed decisions about care and future planning before a crisis hits”.

“Waiting until symptoms worsen can make planning more challenging, may lead to last-minute decisions that affect the person’s dignity and well-being, and could contribute to a faster progression of their condition.”

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Elder, a leading UK live-in care platform, has been named the UK’s number one AgeTech Company by Beauhurst.

Elder earned itself the coveted position as part of a top ten list compiled by the UK-based data and research platform.

Beauhurst’s ranking recognises companies that are not only rapidly scaling but are disrupting traditional, outdated models.

Earlier this month Elder won the Innovation In Home Care Tech Category at the Leaders in Care Awards.

Elder’s Founder and CEO Pete Dowd said that the ranking validated his and Elder’s belief that technology was the key to delivering personalised, fast and trusted, one-to-one care at home.

Pete, CEO of Elder

Elder’s Founder and CEO Pete Dowds

“Our care recipient to carer matching technology has helped match 5,000 vetted carers with some 100,000 families across the UK,” he said.

“There are currently two million older people in England living with some unmet need for social care, and coupled with an older population projected to grow much faster than its working-age population, we need agile but safe care solutions to address such problems”.

“Being named the UK’s top AgeTech company by Beauhurst is not only a vote of confidence for Elder but for our amazing network of carers and the thousands of families that have entrusted them to support their loved ones.”

The Beauhurst ranking also coincides, to the month, with Elder’s tenth year as a company. Mr Dowds founded Elder after struggling to find the right care for his late Gran, Frances.

“Our journey over the past decade has been about building a system that is human-centred, yet technology-driven,” he said.

“We’ve focused on using smart technology coupled with our dedicated, industry leading engineering, data science, care advisor, clinical and customer support teams to help families avoid the pain points that I encountered navigating the care system.

“Our ten years as a company isn’t just about reflecting on growth, it’s about acknowledging the shift we’ve made in the care sector towards choice and independence at home for those who need it most.”

Carer and elderly man chatting in the garden

Elder earned itself the coveted position as part of a top ten list compiled by Beauhurst

To arrange an interview and/or photo opportunity with Pete Dowds, or for further information, contact Mark Acheson on +447435332204 or macheson@elder.org 

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About Elder: In its tenth year, Elder is an award-winning home care platform that matches older adults with self-employed carers for flexible and personalised homecare across the UK. Founded on the principle that home is the best place to age, Elder is committed to delivering solutions that enhance patient dignity and provide families with peace of mind. Elder has helped to deliver more than 15 million hours of home care across the UK. 

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Bonfire night and firework safety for the elderly

Bonfire night celebrations are held across the UK around the 5th of November. While this is an enjoyable time for many, some find fireworks distressing, and extra measures may need to be taken to help them feel safe and happy at home.

Why can bonfire night and fireworks be distressing for an older person?

There are a number of reasons. The loud bangs and sudden flashes of firework displays, and the smell of smoke can take those who did military service back to frightening times. Sometimes, even the happy shouts of people celebrating bonfire night may be misinterpreted as something bad and cause confusion or panic.

For older people living with heart conditions, or conditions that affect breathing such as asthma, bronchitis or COPD, the smoke and toxic fumes from bonfires and the particles left in the air from fireworks could make symptoms worse, causing them to cough more than usual, experience chest pain, or feel lightheaded.

Do fireworks affect dementia?

Yes they can do according to the Alzheimer’s Society. Dementia can sometimes make it difficult to identify and understand sounds – so loud noises can be frightening. People with dementia can find communication and concentration tricky when there is a lot of unexpected noise too. The flashes, and excess activity outside can also be confusing, which in turn could upset their nighttime routine and increase sundowning symptoms such as agitation or insomnia.

How to help older people stay safe during bonfire night and firework displays

Understand the potential distress

If you’ve not experienced this annual celebration with the person you’re caring for before, ask them how they feel about fireworks, and if it’s likely to upset them. Be sure to ask family members for advice too.

While bonfire night is officially on the 5th of November, celebrations are often held anytime within the first two weeks of November. If they’re likely to cause distress to the person you’re looking after, it can help to find out when local firework displays are happening, and to ask neighbours if they are planning to set off fireworks, and if so what time. Most local authorities advise the fireworks cannot be set off after midnight. If you hear fireworks going off after this time and it’s causing distress, try calling the non-emergency police number 101.

If neighbours are planning on setting fireworks off and it’s likely to be distressing for the person you’re supporting you may wish to take them elsewhere – such as out for a quiet meal, or to visit friends or family.

Create a calm home environment

Try closing the curtains a little earlier than usual, especially if you’re close to a public bonfire event, and are likely to have more traffic or people in the streets outside.

Closing all windows, and putting a favourite film, or engaging television programme on with the volume turned up can help to drown out the noise and may help a person with dementia feel more comfortable. Some people also find using a white noise machine helpful.

If there are any pets in the home they may find fireworks upsetting – which in turn could cause upset the person you’re looking after. Walk dogs early in the day to help them feel tired and less distressed in the evening, and make sure cats are kept safely indoors once it starts to get dark.

If the person you’re caring for would like to watch the fireworks, it may be safer to encourage them to watch from inside the home so that they’re not startled by the noise, or at risk of getting too cold from standing outside for a long period of time.

Why not try...

Switching a household fan or dehumidifier unit on creates white noise, which can sometimes block out some firework sounds. A number of phone apps designed to aid sleep have a range of calming sounds such as gentle rain, or waves on a beach, which may also help or act as a distraction. Playing calming music could help too.

Plan alternative activities

If the elderly person you’re caring for wants to be involved in the festivities but without attending an event, A bonfire night dinner could be a fun alternative fireworks night.

You could play videos of firework displays on television at a comfortable volume and make some favourite foods and drinks you’d likely find at a bonfire night such as jacket potatoes, hotdogs, soups and hot chocolate. For those with dementia this may help bring up happy memories of bonfire nights past. This can be a great opportunity for family to come and spend time together too.

If your loved one enjoys arts and crafts, there are lots of fun tutorials online for firework paintings. This can be a nice way to mark the day and evoke memories without stepping out in the noise and the cold. This tutorial uses simple brushstrokes, while this one uses a printing technique with paper toilet rolls.

elder's guide to bonfire night safety for seniors, read our top tips

Only attend professionally organised events

Many older people do enjoy getting out and joining in firework celebrations. If you find this is the case, it’s important to attend firework displays and bonfires that are professionally organised and managed, with proper safety regulations in place.

While it may be tempting to visit a friend or neighbour who is putting on their own display in the garden, it’s much more difficult to stay a safe distance away from the fireworks and falling debris.

A professional event should comply with safety measures from the local council and fire service, and may even have fire services on site. Some of these measures include –

  • Building the bonfire a safe distance away from sheds, fences and trees.
  • Checking there are no overhead cables above or around the bonfire
  • The bonfire has a suitable barrier around it, and spectators are kept at least 5 metres away at all times

If you’re attending an official event, be sure to check with the organisers that suitable parking and accessibility arrangements are in place too. Parking is often some distance away from where the main event will be held, and the ground may not be suitable for walking aids or wheelchairs, especially in the dark and if it’s been rainy.

High visibility clothing can help keep everyone safe if you’re walking in the dark or along the side of a road. Take a torch too. While a mobile phone torch can work in a pinch, it may not illuminate enough of the area in front of you, so you may want to invest in a larger handheld one.

Ear defenders and ear plugs can be bought online and may help dull some louder noises and protect sensitive ears.
Wrapping up warm in enough layers of clothing is important too, as you’ll likely be standing outside for a while. Taking hot beverages in a flask can help, but avoid caffeinated drinks like tea or coffee – instead try something soothing such as soup, hot cocoa, or herbal tea.

Finally if your loved one struggles to stand for long periods check with organisers if you can bring a comfy seat / folding chair. Some don’t allow this for safety reasons so it’s important to confirm the rules before you head out.

Look for events using low noise fireworks

Over the last few years low noise fireworks have become more widely available in the UK as they’re a lot kinder to older and vulnerable people. They’re also less likely to upset pets who can also find fireworks scary. While it’s impossible for a firework to be completely silent, they are considerably quieter and are often paired with music for a more comfortable experience.

Most supermarkets now stock low-noise fireworks, and more and more public events are using them each year too. For example each year events in Epsom Beckenham and Salford hold low noise fireworks displays before their main displays.

Follow the NHS' firework safety rules 

If you’re attending a professional event, there are still some actions you can take to keep yourself and those around you safe. The NHS advise – 

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]]> https://www.elder.org/elder-tips/bonfire-night-safety-for-elderly/feed/ 0 How Music Can Help Those With Dementia and Their Families https://www.elder.org/dementia-care/playlist-for-lifes-chief-executive-tells-us-how-music-can-help-those-with-dementia-and-their-families/ https://www.elder.org/dementia-care/playlist-for-lifes-chief-executive-tells-us-how-music-can-help-those-with-dementia-and-their-families/#respond Tue, 28 Oct 2025 11:17:43 +0000 https://www.elder.org/the-elder/how-music-can-help-those-with-dementia-and-their-families/ We talked to Sarah Metcalfe about the ways in which music can bring people together and connect those living with dementia back to themselves.

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How Music Can Help Those With Dementia and Their Families

We talked to Sarah Metcalfe about the ways in which music can bring people together and connect those living with dementia back to themselves.

Playlist for Life is on a mission to raise awareness about the positive power of music and its ability to improve the lives of those with dementia and their families. By making a playlist of personally meaningful music, it’s possible to curate a ‘musical life story’ that can resonate, stimulate and even help to make daily life easier on a practical level.

We talked to Sarah Metcalfe, former Chief Executive for Playlist for Life, about the ways in which music can bring people together and connect those living with dementia back to themselves – and the launch of Playlist for Life’s new app.

How did Playlist for Life begin?

Playlist for Life was founded in 2013 by BBC broadcaster and writer Sally Magnusson, following the death of her mother, who had lived with dementia for many years. Caring for her at home, Sally and her sisters discovered that music – old hymns, Scottish ballads, and family favourites – could help their mother stay emotionally connected, even as her condition progressed.

This experience inspired Sally’s acclaimed book, Where Memories Go: Why Dementia Changes Everything, which revealed how deeply personal music can support connection, comfort, and wellbeing.

Out of that experience, Playlist for Life was born, a charity with a simple but powerful vision: that everyone living with dementia in the UK should have access to a personal playlist of meaningful music.

What is the aim of Playlist for Life and how does it work?

At its heart, Playlist for Life empowers people to use music as a tool for connection. The charity raises awareness of the benefits of personally meaningful music and provides practical support to help families, carers and professionals get started.

“We teach people to become what we call music detectives,” explains Metcalfe. “Even if someone can no longer recall their favourite songs, it’s possible to uncover them by exploring their life story – where they grew up, who they loved, what they danced to.”

Playlist for Life also offers a rich library of free resources (see their “Resources” page) which include downloadable guides, toolkits and multi-language versions to make it accessible.

Is music a form of reminiscence therapy – or something even more?

“I think there is a lot of crossover between personally meaningful music and reminiscence therapy and I sometimes think of Playlist for Life as life story work with the extra neurological benefits of music. What we’re really getting people to do is create their musical autobiography – and playing the tunes of the big events of one’s life is something we can all enjoy”.

There are additional elements too, in that that the playlist you create can in itself be helpful as a tool. One of the things we train professionals in is therapeutic scheduling, which is the idea that once you have your playlist, you can look at a person’s day and think about where the points of stress and distress occur for them”.

Research at Stanford has suggested that if you play personally meaningful music half an hour before anticipated points of stress or distress then you can potentially avoid it altogether, and this can also help to reduce falls, wandering and other challenging behaviours often found with dementia.

What impact can Playlist for Life have on the family of someone living with dementia?

“One of the things that Sally saw clearly was that the music connected her family to her mother, but importantly that it connected her mother to herself.

It grounded her back into who she was. That’s why we focus on finding the music that is unique to an individual and find out what the musical story is for each person. In terms of care, it is a hugely person-centred resource; Playlist for Life is about exploring a person’s individuality and also about timing it to fit in with their unique needs.”

“There are benefits that are not just for the person with dementia, but for the families and the people who get to share moments of happiness again with someone they thought they had already lost. And that is really powerful.”

“On our site, we tell the story of Harry and Margaret, who were the first couple we worked with. Harry had dementia and had withdrawn into himself and Margaret was visiting him everyday and leaving in tears because he wouldn’t speak and was barely eating. We started working with the playlist, and if you watch the video on the site it’s testament to the transformation.

Harry began talking and laughing and engaging with Margaret again. Margaret recently said that she was reflecting on how much Playlist for Life had meant and that it had become very difficult for her to keep seeing Harry as the man she had married because she was caring for him.

Listening to the music together had brought them back together again. In her own words, she said that she had fallen in love with him again”.

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It’s Playlist for Life’s mission to raise awareness around the positive impact that music can have on those with dementia and their families.

Why is music so powerful?

“Music is neurologically special because it stimulates so many parts of the brain at once; and what seems to happen is that even if one part of your brain is damaged, the music still stimulates other parts. What we see in our work is that it almost gets in through ‘the back door’ to access things you might have thought were lost, potentially forever”.

“We see people who can’t speak being able to sing, people who struggle to walk being about to dance and people who have withdrawn into themselves and no longer communicate or engage, take an interest in others again. It’s not always this dramatic, but it can be”.

How important is it music is something everyone can access?

“With Playlist for Life, people ‘get it’. As soon as it’s pointed out they say ‘Ah, of course. I’ll give that a go’ and I think that is really important. There are great musical interventions out there, but a lot of them require specialist skills, music therapists who’ve trained for years, musicians or group settings”.

“What makes Playlist for Life special is that it’s an individually based activity that is all about someone’s favourite music – which is something we all have. Just knowing that it can help can get people started – and we are all about democratising the power of music”.

“We encourage everyone to make a full playlist, but we also see that once people have knowledge of Playlist for Life, it is just one of the benefits that comes from it. People might not get around to making the full playlist, but they are suddenly aware that if they sing their mum’s favourite song from their teenage years, then that can calm her down – or if they put a radio on playing 1960s music it resonates. Being aware of this begins to change the way that people relate”.

How do you start to use Playlist for Life?

“There is a page on our website about how to start building a playlist for someone you love. But for me, the starting point would be to sit with my phone and start to play bits of tunes that I remembered the person loved, or that might have been important to them as part of their life.

I would make a note of any song that they responded to and gradually build that playlist up of powerful music. I would start small and keep it fun, and most importantly, I would see it as something enjoyable that I could do with that person I loved”.

This interview was part of a series brought to you by Elder. Whether you are looking for live-in care in London or require assistance in another part of the country, Elder will ensure that all of your care needs are taken care of.

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Care provider capacity costs hospitals £23 million in delayed discharges

Written by Mark Acheson • 20/10/25

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More than £23 million was lost in delayed hospital discharges due to a lack of care home and home care availability, the NHS’ September data reveals.

With the first official estimate of delayed discharge costs being released, the £562 cost of an NHS bed day reveals the most accurate findings relating to social care capacity yet.

More than 1,000 people were stuck in hospital for 14 days or more last month as they waited for an existing care package, care home or home care provider to become available. 

Accounting for more than 10 per cent of the £219 million lost for all delayed discharge reasons, Elder Founder and CEO Pete Dowds said his home care technology had already moved more than 1,000 people from hospital to home, 973 of these within 72 hours.

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Founder and CEO of Elder, Peter Dowds

With a pool of more than 5,000 vetted carers, Mr Dowds said Elder’s care recipient to carer matching technology, which has facilitated more than 100,000 matches across the UK, could immediately remove the backlog of people waiting in hospital for live-in care. 

“Elder’s technology has helped thousands of families find quality, live-in carers for their loved ones in a matter of days, and in many cases, less than 24 hours,” he said. 

“We urge hospital trusts and Integrated Care Boards to recognise that agile, tech-enabled home care is the fastest route to freeing up critical hospital bed capacity”.

“In its 10 Year Health Plan for England, the NHS acknowledges it is ‘behind the technological curve’, yet in ten years it wants to be ‘the most AI-enabled health system in the world”. 

“Our proprietary, AI powered technology is not a proposed solution, it’s a proven one”.

“Refined over ten years and backed by our industry-leading engineering, data science, care advisor, clinical and customer support teams, Elder’s technology and carers can prevent wasted taxpayer spend, and more importantly, help people stuck in hospital return home sooner.”

From hospital to home

In October this year, Ian Boulden contacted Elder to help get his father George from hospital to home in Warwickshire as soon as possible. An infection had set in post hip surgery, so Mr Boulden knew home was the best place for his father to recover, both mentally and physically.

“When he was released it was clear that the infection had affected his mental health and he was not able to care for himself,” Mr Boulden said. 

“It (Elder) was a very simple and speedy process, with initial contact on a Thursday and the career starting on the Sunday.”

“My father was very happy with the care that he received from the carer over the four week period.”

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Elder wins at Leaders In Care Awards

Written by Mark Acheson • 10/10/25

Elder at leaders in care awards 2025

The annual Leaders in Care Awards were held on Tuesday evening, recognising the best home care and care home providers in the country. The ceremony was held on the first night of the Birmingham Care Show, at The National Conference Centre in Birmingham.

Elder was nominated for two awards, walking away as the winner of the Innovation In Home Care Tech Category.   

Elder Founder and CEO Pete Dowds said innovation was fundamental to Elder, and the awards came at an important milestone for the company — ten years to the month of delivering more than 15 million hours of live-in care across the UK.

“We’ve pioneered the use of technology to directly connect families with quality, vetted live-in carers for their loved ones,” said Pete.

“While arranging care often feels overwhelming, Elder’s smart technology, built and supported by its expert people, has established a new, reliable standard for finding the right match.”

Elder at the 2025 Leaders In Care Awards
From 2nd left: Elder's Robyn Moore, Ryan Dawson, Karolina Boguszewska and Mark Acheson.

Elder’s win prompts customer testimonial 

One Elder customer took the time to congratulate Elder via social media, citing how important live-in care was for their loved one. 

“A family member of ours received live in care from Elder and staying in his own home meant everything to him,” she said.

“The excellent live-in care from Elder allowed him to stay at home until the end and we will be forever thankful for that.

“I highly recommend Elder and well done to everyone on winning the award.”

Innovation In Home Care Tech Category Award

The award celebrates providers developing technology-driven solutions that empower carers and improve outcomes for clients in home care.

“Elder’s proprietary technology suite enables an end-to-end experience, from family engagement to care delivery and real-time updates. Judges highlighted Elder’s unique commitment to in-house innovation, which allows for more personalisation and control than off-the-shelf systems.”

A word from Home Care Insight UK Editor Stephen Hall 

Stephen said that the social care industry is filled with talent and innovation.

“Each person and company that was shortlisted for an award deserves huge recognition for everything that they have achieved over the past year. 

Our entire list of nominees are some of the absolute best among our care colleagues up and down the country,” he said.

“They are people who have continued to selflessly devote themselves to delivering outstanding care, despite the ongoing challenges that the sector continues to face.

“Offering recognition to these individuals is the ethos of the Leaders in Care Awards.”

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20 Halloween safety tips for older people

Written by Zenya Smith • 10/10/25

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Halloween can be a magical time for many, especially if you have young children or grandchildren who are excited to dress up and go trick-or-treating. It marks the transition to autumn too – the time for comforting soups and stews, watching the leaves change colour, and wrapping up warm to enjoy crisp mornings.

However, some older people can find Halloween a difficult time. The darker evenings and unexpected visitors can be distressing for those living alone or with dementia. We’ve shared 20 essential safety tips for helping everyone experience this time of year in a way that’s comfortable and safe for them.

Why can Halloween be frightening for seniors?

There are many reasons why an older person may find Halloween uncomfortable or even frightening:

  • Noise and stress: Shouting in the streets – happy or not – can put people on edge, or bring back bad memories or fears.

  • Unexpected visitors: Constant knocking at the front door or the doorbell always going may be stressful, especially if it’s loud or unexpected.

  • Physical risk: For older people with physical limitations, having to keep getting up to answer the door may increase their risk of falls or injury. Once they make it to the door, they may feel intimidated if they’re faced with a large group of older children.

  • Dementia-related confusion: Disruptions to routine, strange costumes, and unfamiliar or scary decorations can cause confusion, misinterpretation, and trigger difficult or anxious behaviours.

How can I support my loved one this Halloween?

There are a number of things you can do both in the lead-up to Halloween and on the night itself to reduce safety risks and ensure peace of mind.

  1. Clear pathways and check mobility aids: Keep the floors and entryways clear of trip hazards. Check any mobility aids are in proper working order so your loved one can safely reach the door if they wish to.

  2. Invest in a personal alarm: A lot of these devices can be worn on a pendant around the neck or on a wrist bracelet, and allow the wearer to call for help or the emergency services with a touch of a button, should they feel in danger.

  3. Arrange companionship: Arrange for someone to come over and sit with a loved one for a few hours. Most trick-or-treating will likely happen between 6 pm and 9 pm – although this may differ in certain areas.

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  1. Signal absence: If you deem it safe to do so, you may wish to turn off outdoor lights and draw the curtains to suggest no one is home. 

  2. Use door security features: Use a video doorbell, spy hole, or door chain to check who’s at the door before opening it properly. Ensure your loved one or their carer knows they only need to open the door if they feel comfortable doing so, and that they shouldn’t feel pressured. 

  3. Deter door knocking with treats: If you expect a lot of children will be trick-or-treating in the area unaccompanied, it may help to put a bowl of sweets outside at the end of the driveway or garden path, to deter them from coming up to the door. 

  4. Create distraction: Try distracting a loved one from the noise outside by engaging in conversation, putting on some favourite music, or enjoying a classic movie marathon. 

  5. Secure home windows and outbuildings: Pranks can involve throwing things or accessing gardens. Advise checking that all ground-floor windows are securely locked and any garden sheds or outbuildings are secured to prevent anti-social behaviour. 

  6. Use light timers: If the front porch light is off to deter visitors, using an automatic timer for interior lights can help maintain a safe, routine-based environment inside the home, especially if the resident is distracted by external noise. 

  7. Secure pets indoors: Ensure all pets (cats, dogs, etc.) are securely contained in a quiet, interior room, away from the front door. Constant door-opening and strange costumes can cause them to bolt out, leading to stress, injury, or getting lost. 

  8. Keep pet-toxic items out of reach: Halloween candy (especially chocolate and xylitol-sweetened items) is highly toxic to pets. Ensure all decorations that could be chewed, swallowed, or cause injury (wires, battery-operated items, or flickering lights) are safely secured or put away.

Tips for seniors living with dementia

Routine and predictability are vital for those with dementia. These four tips can help a loved one stay as comfortable as possible over Halloween:

  1. Limit confusing decorations: Limit decorations if they’re likely to cause confusion and agitation, or change how the house looks. Interactive decorations that make noises or have flashing lights can be particularly confusing to some people.
     
  2. Filter unsettling TV content: Consider what they may end up watching on television as many channels will be showing horror movies or unsettling shows. You may wish to block certain channels if it’s possible. Put on a favourite DVD, or keep them busy with quiet activities like reading, sewing, or reminiscing by looking at their favourite family pictures. 

  3. Play calming music: Try playing calming music to help distract from any unusual noises outside. 

  4. Focus on autumnal activities: Focus on it being autumn rather than Halloween and do some seasonal crafts or tactile games. Seasonal activities for dementia may include:
     
    • Baking and decorating homemade treats together using seasonal ingredients such as apples or squash. 

    • Creating art with fallen leaves and twigs, or pressing the items collected from the garden or local park. 

    • Playing a sensory guessing game where your loved one can identify autumnal items like cinnamon sticks, different types of leaves, or pinecones.

How to support elderly people in your community on Halloween

We don’t just have a responsibility to our loved ones this Halloween. We can all do our part to help every elderly person in our community feel safe.

  1. Respect “no trick-or-treating” signals: If you’re going trick-or-treating, avoid houses that don’t look like they’re taking part. Houses without decorations or pumpkins outside, or with the porch light off, could indicate they wish to be left alone.

     

  2. Avoid frail residents: If you know an older or particularly frail person lives at a certain house, it’s best to avoid knocking on their door.

     

  3. Knock once, then move on: Only knock or ring a doorbell once. If there’s no answer, respect their decision not to come to the door and move on.

     

  4. Keep noise to a minimum: Be careful not to make too much noise after dark.

     

  5. Report anti-social behaviour: Unfortunately, some people use Halloween as an excuse to ‘prank’ people, such as throwing eggs or toilet paper at their homes or in their gardens. If you see anyone engaging in anti-social behaviour or doing something that could upset an older person, call the non-emergency police on 101 for advice.

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Hospital discharge

When your mum or dad is in hospital, certainties can be few and far between. From condition, outlook and discharge date, there are a lot of different things that could change.

When a loved one is in hospital, navigating their care can be stressful and confusing. But when it’s time for them to leave, arranging a safe and supported return home can feel even more overwhelming. If you’re worried about the hospital discharge process, this guide will help you understand the steps involved and how to ensure the right care is in place for a successful recovery.

What happens when elderly patients are discharged from hospital?

Hospital discharge teams are in charge of a patient’s safe transfer of care, ensuring they get the right support once they leave the hospital. Their goal is to get your loved one home as soon as they are medically fit, as wards are not the best environment for long-term recuperation.

How are patient's needs assessed?

The hospital will follow a procedure called Discharge to Assess (D2A). This is a national framework designed to speed up safe discharges by continuing the assessment and support process outside of the hospital setting.

A D2A team, which can include doctors, nurses, occupational therapists, and social workers, will assess a person’s needs and discharge them through one of four pathways:

  • Pathway 0: The patient is medically fit and needs no additional support.

  • Pathway 1: The patient needs short-term support at home, which may include home carers or therapists.

  • Pathway 2: The patient needs temporary care in a residential setting, such as a care home or nursing home, before returning home or moving to a permanent care setting.

  • Pathway 3: The patient needs ongoing nursing care in a nursing home or other healthcare facility.


For a safe discharge to happen, a senior member of staff must medically clear the patient and create a written care plan.

Can you disagree with a hospital discharge?

Yes. If you feel a discharge is unsafe for your loved one or the assessment was not done correctly, you have the right to raise a complaint. The first step is to speak to the hospital staff directly. You can also contact the hospital’s Patient Advice and Liaison Service (PALS), which can offer confidential advice and support.

Free and funded care options after hospital

Many people only need temporary support after a hospital stay while they regain their strength. The NHS may offer free care to aid a timely discharge.

Can my loved one get six weeks free care after hospital discharge?

Yes. Your loved one may be offered a type of short-term care called intermediate care or reablement care. This is an effective form of care that helps a person regain independence and reduces the risk of further hospital admissions. Most people only need support for a couple of weeks, but your loved one can receive up to six weeks of free care if they need it.

This care is NHS-funded and provided in your loved one’s home. If their home isn’t suitable, they may be offered a temporary stay in a residential setting, such as an acute hospital or other community health service.

After the six weeks are up, if further ongoing care is required, a new care needs assessment will be performed by the local authority to see if they are eligible for social care funding.

For more information, read our guide to what happens after intermediate care.

What is an 'unsafe discharge'?

An unsafe discharge is when a patient is sent home before it is medically appropriate or without the necessary support in place for their recovery. This can lead to worsening health and preventable readmissions.

Examples of an unsafe discharge include:

  • The patient is still unwell or not fully recovered.

  • The care plan is unclear, or there is no plan for follow-up care.

  • The patient or their family don’t understand the discharge instructions, including medication details.

  • The patient is sent home to an unsuitable living environment without adequate support.

 

Hospitals are legally required to ensure all discharges are safe by thoroughly assessing the patient’s condition and arranging appropriate follow-up care.

Arranging the right care after hospital discharge

Sometimes, there is a lack of available community services or residential care, which can lead to discharge delays. Arranging private care can be an excellent way to get your loved one home quickly and safely.

Home care vs residential care

It can be difficult to decide which option is best. While care homes have been the traditional choice, home care (also called domiciliary care) can provide the same level of support without the disruption of a move.

Home care benefits for post-hospital recovery:

  • Familiar surroundings: Recovery is often faster in the comfort and familiarity of a person’s own home.

  • One-to-one support: Your loved one receives personalised, one-to-one attention from a dedicated carer.

  • Faster arrangements: Private home care can often be arranged more quickly than residential care, helping to prevent delayed discharge.

  • Personalised rehab: A carer can provide consistent support with specific recovery and rehabilitation goals.

How Elder can help

If your loved one is keen to recover at home, but can’t access free intermediate care services, Elder can help you find a self-employed carer to provide respite care or home care visits. We can also assist with permanent care for longer-term needs.

Here’s how we can help with a smooth hospital discharge:

  • Expert guidance: Our Care Advisors can liaise with the hospital discharge team to check the progress of any care needs assessment, and understand whether a self-employed carer can support your loved one’s post-discharge needs.

  • Clinical communication: In some cases, our clinical team can speak with the medical professionals who are helping your loved one to ensure all their needs are accurately understood and shared with the carer.

  • Quick matching: We can quickly match your loved one with pre-screened, self-employed carers, allowing for a faster and safer transfer home.

  • Funding advice: Our Care Advisors can help you understand more about the different types of funding available. You can also try our free online funding calculator tool to find out whether your loved one is going to be eligible.

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Practical tips for a smoother hospital discharge

To make the process as easy as possible, here are some key tips for a successful return home.

  1. Create a list of questions: Write down any questions you have for the hospital staff, doctor, or GP about medication, follow-up appointments, or their recovery plan.

  2. Review the care plan: Ensure you get a copy of the written care plan and understand what it entails. Keep this safe for future reference.

  3. Explore funding options: Ask about your loved one’s eligibility for adult social care funding from the local authority. If they’re eligible, request a ‘direct payment’ to give them more control over choosing their care provider.

  4. Prepare the home: Before your loved one returns, make sure their home is safe. This might involve decluttering, installing mobility aids like grab rails, and stocking the fridge with food.

  5. Organise transport: Arrange for someone to pick you and your loved one up from the hospital, or check if the hospital can provide a non-emergency patient transport service.

Where to find additional support

While the voluntary sector cannot provide professional adult carers, many organisations offer invaluable support that can help with the recovery process. They can connect you with volunteers for help with errands, shopping, or providing companionship for your loved one:

Frequently Asked Questions

  • What is the difference between intermediate care and private home care?

    Intermediate care is a short-term, NHS-funded service (up to 6 weeks) to help a person regain independence after a hospital stay. Private home care is a flexible, privately funded option that can be arranged for any duration, from temporary respite to long-term care.

  • How long does it take to arrange private home care?

    With Elder, arranging private home care can often be done very quickly, sometimes within 24 hours. This is a key advantage, as it can help prevent unnecessary delays in your loved one's discharge from the hospital.

  • Can a live-in carer assist with rehabilitation?

    Yes. A live-in carer can provide consistent support with a person's rehabilitation plan, such as assisting with mobility exercises, medication reminders, and ensuring a safe environment for recovery.

  • How do I know if my loved one is eligible for NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC)?

    NHS Continuing Healthcare is for people with complex health needs that are primarily a "healthcare need" rather than a "social care need." Eligibility is determined by a comprehensive assessment. You can ask the hospital discharge team to initiate the process.

This article is for informational purposes only and not to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, always consult your GP.

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Dementia Care: 11 Signs of Alzheimer’s

Most elderly people worry about the possibility of developing Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia as they age. Any lapse in memory can trigger concerns, but this can simply be a sign of ageing. 

We take a look at the signs of Alzheimer’s, and explain which symptoms you may want to discuss with a medical professional, such as a GP.
 

1. Memory loss of recent memories

We all forget things occasionally, and forgetfulness often becomes more frequent as we grow older. For example we may forget the name of a television show we watched, or blank when trying to give directions.

There are a few reasons for this, firstly, the hippocampus – the part of the brain that forms and retrieves memories naturally slows down over time. The hormones in the brain that protect and repair brain cells, keeping them alert and healthy also decline with age too. And, older people are more likely to experience decreased blood flow to the brain, which can impact how they recall information.

However, if you’re finding that your loved one regularly forgets things that have happened recently, or is beginning to find it difficult to remember the names of people, objects or places, or is asking the same questions or doing the same thing over and over, this could be an indication of that something else is going on, and is something to talk to a GP about.

Example – “Dad started to buy lots of dog food, sometimes going multiple times a day to get more, despite already having lots in the cupboard.”

Did you know –

  • While many people think memory is the first cognitive function to decline with age, it’s actually speed of thinking. 
  • We lose 2% of our brain cells every year after the age of 20. 
  • The brain is only about 2% of a person’s body weight but uses 20% of the body’s energy. 

 

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2. Feeling unsettled by change 

Many of us like to do things a certain way, or have preferences that shape our daily routines. For older people who have spent decades building a life, it can be totally normal for them to be set in their ways and a little apprehensive or reluctant to change. 
 
However Alzheimer’s disease and sometimes amplify these feelings and cause people to become quite distressed in unfamiliar situations or when faced with a change in routine. Dementia impairs a person’s ability to plan for, initiate, and complete things. It makes it harder to understand the world. Having things suddenly change around them can lead a person withe dementia feel confused and out of control. They may also feel that they’re losing their independence.
 
Example – “I was late for my weekly visit and Mum refused to speak to me.”

 

3. Difficulty with problem-solving

If your loved one finds organised tasks difficult, such as following a recipe, where they didn’t before, this could be an indication of dementia. Many people with dementia struggle with managing their money, which may necessitate a family member stepping in to take charge.

However, it’s important to remember that as with any muscle, the brain can become weaker over time if it’s not getting a good work out. Lifestyle and daily habits can have a huge impact on how the brain functions in later life. Furthermore, the brain still has the ability to adapt and change even in old age, so taking up brain-boosting activities is really important, as it could help maintain or sharpen problem solving skills.

Example – ” Mum needed to buy some new walking boots for a holiday, but came back from the shops with very expensive designer boots. They were high heeled, not waterproof, and completely unsuitable.”

 

4. Struggling with familiar tasks

We all lose our keys from time to time, but if your loved one has started to lose their keys and find them in strange places, it could be something to raise with a GP. Becoming disorientated in familiar places, such as a relative’s home or the local supermarket, or forgetting the rules of a much-loved game are also signs of possible abnormal memory loss.

Example – “Mum always used to be very good on the computer and her phone, but now she’s really struggling to understanding emails or send a text message.” 

5. Confusion with place and time

Forgetting what day it is can be a normal experience for any of us, but losing complete track of dates, times and even the seasons are causes for concern. Over time, your loved one may become prone to becoming lost, even when close to home, and this is often the symptom that triggers a search for companion care solutions, such as live-in care to keep your loved one safe.

Example – “My mum’s lived in the same areas for 40 years. Recently when I’ve been in the car with here she’s forgotten which roads to take and missed turnings. The other day she asked me where we were going.”

 

6. Problems with visual and spatial relationships

If your elderly loved one is failing to recognise themselves in the mirror, this could indicate that a cognitive condition such as Alzheimer’s has affected the part of the brain that controls spatial awareness.

Other visual problems to be aware of are hallucinations – when your loved one begins to see things that aren’t there, and difficulty in understanding the things they’re looking at, such as struggling to recognise items are around their home.

Those with Alzheimer’s may also be unable to judge braking distances when driving too, making them a hazard on the roads. This is another indication that elderly care provisions need to be put into place for your loved one’s safety.

Example – “Dad can’t walk in a straight line, and seems very unsteady.”

 

7. Difficulties with words and language

It’s not uncommon to lose the thread of a conversation, especially for those with hearing or communication problems. However, when it occurs frequently, this can be a sign of something more serious. Those with Alzheimer’s tend to repeat themselves and have trouble joining in with conversations, as they lose their train of thought more easily.

Example – “When I talk to mum you can see in her eyes that she’s finding it difficult to understand what I’m saying. Sometimes her replies don’t make sense.” 

 

8. Mislaying personal items

Someone with Alzheimer’s is likely to put familiar objects in completely unfamiliar places – a common example is leaving house keys in the fridge or oven. Moreover, Alzheimer’s can create the sense of suspicion, and often those living with the condition will accuse others of stealing their belongings if they can’t find them. This tendency increases over time and is a symptom that those experienced in dementia care are only too familiar with.

Example – “Mum thought her next door neighbour was coming into the garden and stealing her laundry.” 

 

9. Changes in personality

Depression and worries about ageing can be common, but for those with Alzheimer’s, personality changes are much more severe. Many people with dementia become irritable and anxious as the disease progresses, often with bouts of depression and aggression, sometimes accompanied by hallucinations or delusions.

When combined with disrupted sleep patterns, and a loss of inhibitions, people with dementia can display challenging behaviours, which family members can find upsetting and may struggle to deal with. This is where a dedicated care at home package can be helpful, providing the individual with a calm and supportive caregiver who looks out for them 24/7.

Example – ” My Grandad is becoming quite selfish. Every conversation is me, me, me, and he doesn’t engage with or show empathy for anyone in the family.” 

 

10. Poor judgement

We can all exercise poor judgement at times, but for those with Alzheimer’s, this can occur on a regular basis. Many elderly people with dementia fall prey to door-to-door sales schemes, and telemarketers, often buying endless products that they have no need for, which can quickly deplete their savings.

Personal hygiene may deteriorate as the person with dementia forgets to bathe regularly, which is another indication that in-home help may be needed. A lack of good judgement can compromise your loved one’s safety, as they will be unable to complete simple tasks, such as preparing a meal without the risk of harming themselves.

Example – “I didn’t think Dad had showered for a few weeks. When I asked him about it and he said he didn’t need to as he doesn’t get dirty.”

 

11. Avoiding social interaction

Many elderly people suffer from loneliness, and avoiding social interactions can be symptom of low self-esteem or depression, stemming from feelings of isolation.

Frequent deliberate attempts to avoid social interaction can be a symptom of dementia too. Many people with dementia lose interest in former hobbies and pastimes as the ability to focus on a task for any length of time decreases. They may no longer engage in activities and sports that they used to enjoy and may end up actively avoiding social engagements, due to their inability to follow conversations.

It’s important to remember that all of the above can be symptoms of depression too, so this is something to consider when seeking support from a health professional.

Example – “Dad sits all day in his room doing nothing – no TV or radio.” 

Coming to terms with dementia

From dealing with a diagnosis and understanding the implications to getting advice on how to live well with the condition, our extensive resources will help guide you through what can be a tough and emotional moment. 
 

 

 
This article is for informational purposes only and not to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, always consult your GP.

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